你们相信童话故事吗？相信说哪一天你的白马王子会出现在你面前，然后永远的在一起吗？听起来，很幼稚吧。什么白马王子，什么天长地久，什么白头到老，都是虚构的吧。
我们人嘛，都是活在一堆谎言里。只要是一句赞美，是人都会沾沾自喜，而如果是一个残酷的真相，可能也会恼羞成怒吧。通常真相都很难让人接受吧。
真正成功的人，也应该有两种。
第1种： 马屁精/小聪明
这种人，是最长命的。他们拥有了他们的马屁智慧，是最容易生存在这个社会里。谎言是他们的好朋友，对他们而言也只是家常便饭而已。
第2种： 努力到不行的
这种人，我只能说冤枉啊。嘴巴不够人俐，动作不够人快，但却要用尽了一切努力，才好不容易能被看好，被重视。但它能够很开心的垆土，因为他没浪费在世的时间，每一分都过得很充实。
那你是哪一种呢？
Been months...
okay okay. I know. I never update for so long.
I want to update this post, because I was looking through my previous blog in wordpress, and I saw a few posts that I like, so I decided to re-post it here slowly.. since I no long using my wordpress. I'm going to post this chinese post today. these posts is dated back 2 or 3 years ago. :) it brought back memories..
I want to update this post, because I was looking through my previous blog in wordpress, and I saw a few posts that I like, so I decided to re-post it here slowly.. since I no long using my wordpress. I'm going to post this chinese post today. these posts is dated back 2 or 3 years ago. :) it brought back memories..
New skin?
I tried. haha. I convert back to my old skin. I think I change the skin next week, when I'm more free.
:p
:p
羅志祥罗生门
羅志祥-舞法舞天
羅志祥-愛瘋頭
蕭亞軒&羅志祥-WOW
羅志祥-爲什麽要在一起
羅志祥-習慣就好
羅志祥&楊丞琳-In Your Eyes
羅志祥-愛的主場秀
I bought 羅志祥舞法舞天 3D World Tour concert ticket! I'm going I'm going I'm so going! No need to fly to Taiwan already haha. It's on 22nd May, 8PM at Singapore Indoor stadium. I bought @ $178. I'm so excited!! It's 3D!! And he loves Avatar too! lol. 羅志祥<3
羅志祥-愛瘋頭
蕭亞軒&羅志祥-WOW
羅志祥-爲什麽要在一起
羅志祥-習慣就好
羅志祥&楊丞琳-In Your Eyes
羅志祥-愛的主場秀
I bought 羅志祥舞法舞天 3D World Tour concert ticket! I'm going I'm going I'm so going! No need to fly to Taiwan already haha. It's on 22nd May, 8PM at Singapore Indoor stadium. I bought @ $178. I'm so excited!! It's 3D!! And he loves Avatar too! lol. 羅志祥<3
Mungo Jerry - In The Summertime (2005)
In the summertime when the weather's high,
you can stretch right up and touch the sky,
when the weather's fine,
you got women, you got women on your mind.
Have a drink, have a drive,
go out and see what you can find.
If her daddy's rich, take her out for a meal.
If her daddy's poor, just do as you feel.
Speed along the lane,
Do a ton, or a ton and twenty-five.
When the sun goes down, you can make it,
make it good in a lay-by.
We're not grey people, we're not dirty, we're not mean.
We love everybody, but we do as we think.
When the weather's fine
we go fishing or go swimming in the sea.
We're always happy,
life's for living, yeah, that's our philosophy.
Sing along with us, dee-dee-dee-dee-dee.
Da-da-da-da-da...Yeah, we're happy happy,
da-da-da-da-dah.
When the winter's here, then it's party time.
Bring a bottle, wear your bright clothes.
It'll soon be summertime, and we'll sing again,
we'll go drivin' or maybe we'll settle down.
If she's rich, if she's nice,
bring you're friends and we'll all go into town.
Self Help
Yes, I need that right now. I'm at the stage where I'm overly, overly sensitive to things and I will get WAY too affected by small issues that happened and I will start to complain whine to the few people whom I think starting to get irritated by me, and my another problem is I make too many assumptions, like now, you see? My temper starts from young, make assumptions, overly overly sensitive, get way too affected? I don't when they started, but I don't think I felt this way ten years ago. Maybe I'm wrong. But anyhow, I need to rebuild myself. Rebuild the happy-go-lucky me. Nowadays, I think TOO much on things that I shouldn't even be bothered with, and I forgot about myself. I think I'm lost. I'm more pessimistic now, compare to last time, and I need to learn to say No at times. Ha.
Well, I need to build my inner strength. I always thought I'm strong mentally. I am, I know I am. I'm gonna prove it.
Concentrate on what you should be concentrating first now, Peiyun. Think about others later. And remember, tranquility. :)
Found this online:
To build your inner strength, try some of the following:
1. Take time to look within
Start to meditate , learn yoga, spend time in nature and reflect. Just sit, do nothing and observe as you breathe deeply and slowly. Get in touch with your inner nature, the beauty and essence that you are.
2. Affirm your qualities
What qualities make you unique? Enthusiasm, sense of humour, joy, persistence, courage, ability to connect with others? Affirm those in the present tense with "I am" statements. Choose 3 affirmations and repeat them, first thing in the morning and last thing at night. For example:
I am generous with my family and friends
I am caring and considerate
I am thoughtful and loving
3. Make agreements you know you can keep
Be on time. You will show yourself to be a reliable person. Renegotiate agreements you cannot keep - make fewer of them. You will know yourself as being trustworthy.
4. Learn to say "No"
Do not over-commit yourself. Refusing a request is not against anyone else. You are being honest with, and true to, yourself.
5. Accept, appreciate and love yourself through difficulties
When your life is in turmoil, you may not do things "perfectly". Give yourself permission to learn. Ask: What can this situation teach me? Remember that at all times, you are doing the best you can. When you know better, you do better.
6. Be forgiving
When you make a mistake, be tender, kind and compassionate. Do not punish, criticize and condemn yourself. Love and comfort yourself, as you would a precious child.
7. Prize yourself
Celebrate your "wins", the things that go well, and the good that you do. At the end of the day, notice the goodness of your intention and your actions.
8. Do what gives you happiness
Be happy with what you do. Choosing to be happy is a great spiritual discipline. When you are walking, smile to yourself. You will find things to smile about.
9. Focus on the positive
Even in the midst of disaster, look for the blessings and opportunity present. With a positive attitude, you can literally turn your life around.
10. Relax and be patient
While you may not be able to do anything about the global economy as a whole, you can make the most of each day and take steps to build a future you would like. This is not a passive, hopeless enduring, but an active, participative anticipation of a better life for yourself and those you care for.
11. Be open for the best
You never know what good is right around the next corner. Keep an open and receptive mind. Do not be tempted to believe all you hear on the news. The creative spirit in you, and in our human community, is a very wonderful and extraordinary resource.
12. Say thank you to life...
.... and for your life. Be grateful. If you feel down, look around you and be grateful for all that you have, right now. The attitude of gratitude will take you through life's worst storms and lead you toward greater joy, serenity and fulfilment.
Well, I need to build my inner strength. I always thought I'm strong mentally. I am, I know I am. I'm gonna prove it.
Concentrate on what you should be concentrating first now, Peiyun. Think about others later. And remember, tranquility. :)
Found this online:
To build your inner strength, try some of the following:
1. Take time to look within
Start to meditate , learn yoga, spend time in nature and reflect. Just sit, do nothing and observe as you breathe deeply and slowly. Get in touch with your inner nature, the beauty and essence that you are.
2. Affirm your qualities
What qualities make you unique? Enthusiasm, sense of humour, joy, persistence, courage, ability to connect with others? Affirm those in the present tense with "I am" statements. Choose 3 affirmations and repeat them, first thing in the morning and last thing at night. For example:
I am generous with my family and friends
I am caring and considerate
I am thoughtful and loving
3. Make agreements you know you can keep
Be on time. You will show yourself to be a reliable person. Renegotiate agreements you cannot keep - make fewer of them. You will know yourself as being trustworthy.
4. Learn to say "No"
Do not over-commit yourself. Refusing a request is not against anyone else. You are being honest with, and true to, yourself.
5. Accept, appreciate and love yourself through difficulties
When your life is in turmoil, you may not do things "perfectly". Give yourself permission to learn. Ask: What can this situation teach me? Remember that at all times, you are doing the best you can. When you know better, you do better.
6. Be forgiving
When you make a mistake, be tender, kind and compassionate. Do not punish, criticize and condemn yourself. Love and comfort yourself, as you would a precious child.
7. Prize yourself
Celebrate your "wins", the things that go well, and the good that you do. At the end of the day, notice the goodness of your intention and your actions.
8. Do what gives you happiness
Be happy with what you do. Choosing to be happy is a great spiritual discipline. When you are walking, smile to yourself. You will find things to smile about.
9. Focus on the positive
Even in the midst of disaster, look for the blessings and opportunity present. With a positive attitude, you can literally turn your life around.
10. Relax and be patient
While you may not be able to do anything about the global economy as a whole, you can make the most of each day and take steps to build a future you would like. This is not a passive, hopeless enduring, but an active, participative anticipation of a better life for yourself and those you care for.
11. Be open for the best
You never know what good is right around the next corner. Keep an open and receptive mind. Do not be tempted to believe all you hear on the news. The creative spirit in you, and in our human community, is a very wonderful and extraordinary resource.
12. Say thank you to life...
.... and for your life. Be grateful. If you feel down, look around you and be grateful for all that you have, right now. The attitude of gratitude will take you through life's worst storms and lead you toward greater joy, serenity and fulfilment.
My mom's the best!
She woke up at 5am to cook barley for me before she go work! ><~ So sweet can! Love you mommy! muacks!
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